国家教委副主任滕藤指出:教育行政部门和学校对家庭教育负有指导的责任目前,我们的德育工作面临两个问题:一是学校要管学生,范围太大管不了。“外面的世界很精彩”,年幼无知的学生一出校门,对五光十色的现实必然会产生五花八门的思想,往往是“老师说一千道一万,不如学生街上转一圈”。二是家长想管子女,缺少方法管不好。有的家长对子女或溺爱过分,或严 Teng Teng, deputy director of the State Education Commission, pointed out that the education administrative departments and schools are responsible for the guidance of family education. At present, our moral education work faces two problems: First, schools have to supervise students and the scope is too big to control. “The outside world is very exciting.” When young and ignorant students come out of the school gate, they will inevitably have a variety of ideas about the colorful reality. “Teachers say that one thousand and ten thousand is not as good as a student.” Second, parents want to manage their children. The lack of methods is not good. Some parents have excessive or strict love for their children.