生活中,我们经常会看到这样一幕,妈妈出门前叮嘱孩子:“乖乖的,听姥姥的话!”也时常听到这样的夸奖:“这孩子真乖,小小年纪就这么懂事!”好像“乖”是好孩子的标准。但很多成人发现,不少儿时调皮捣蛋的小伙伴长大后却更有成就。很多乖孩子长大后依然乖,但无论事业还是家庭都波澜不惊,甚至不顺、不幸福。这些年来,抑郁症、焦虑症患者,小时候多是乖孩子,他们善于 In life, we often see such a scene, my mother told children before going out: “obediently, listen to grandma’s words! ” Often hear such compliment: “This child is really good, so young age is so sensible! ”Like “ Good ”is the standard of good children. But many adults find that when they are grown up, they are more successful. A lot of good children are still good after they grow up, but both business and family are placid and even unlucky and unhappy. Over the years, depression, anxiety patients, as a child more than good boy, they are good at