我们经常听到这样一句话:你所在朋友圈的水平,决定了你的水平。所以,我们都想和“牛人”们在一起。确实,不同的朋友圈所讨论的内容,说话的主题也不一样,水平差距很大。跟一个领域的“牛人”谈话,或许有很多内容你听不懂,你不太清楚谈话的实质内容,但是他谈话的深度,他的造诣你能感受到。虽然行业不同,领域不同,但是我们能隐约觉得这些“牛人”有一些共同点。那些环绕在他们身边的光环是什么呢?心理学家马斯洛终其一生都在试图解答上述问题。他在《人性能达到的境界》一书中 We often hear the remark that the level of your circle of friends determines your level. So, we all want to be with “coworkers”. Indeed, the content of the discussion in different circles of friends is not the same as the theme of speech, and there is a wide gap between the levels. Talk to a cow man in a field. There may be many things you do not understand. You do not understand the substance of the conversation, but the depth of his conversation and his accomplishments can be felt. Although we have different industries and different fields, we can vaguely think these “cowards” have something in common. What aura around those around them? Psychologist Maslow throughout his life are trying to answer these questions. He is in the Realm of Human Performance