我和本夫正式认识大概是1991年。当时中国作协在厦门召开两个会,一个是全国作协系统发展第三产业的研讨会,一个是庄重文学奖的华东五省颁奖会。有缘的是我们俩被安排在同一个房间。由于是会套着会开,白天的时间安排得很满,晚上也没什么业余文化生活。除了有一天大家一同去看了一盘有关海峡两岸关系的录像带之 I and Benfu formal understanding is probably in 1991. At that time, the Chinese Writers’ Association held two meetings in Xiamen. One was a seminar for the Writers Association of China to systematically develop the tertiary industry. One was a presentation ceremony of the Five Provinces of East China, a solemn prize for literature. It is destined that the two of us are arranged in the same room. Because it is set will be open, the daytime schedule is full, no amateur cultural life at night. Except one day everyone went to see a video about the relations across the Taiwan Strait