儿子小学4年级,一直很调皮,我脾气又急,经常说他,他也很怕我。最近给他办了转学后,我觉得他有些不适应,班主任说他经常和班里同学闹矛盾,每天都闷闷不乐的,我问他却什么也不说。是不是我这个唱黑脸的对他太严厉?儿子已经不愿和我说心事了!解答一:现在的情况是,身为妈妈的你脾气急,经常斥责他;他在学校又与同学有矛盾,到了引起班主任关注并通知家长的程度。这就是他目前的全部生活环境和人际关系!换位思考下,这得多郁闷?要知道,对学龄儿童来说,转学可是件大事儿。你提前与孩子商量过吗?你 Grade 4 son of elementary school, has been very naughty, my temper and anxious, often say he, he is also afraid of me. After he had given him a transfer recently, I felt he was a bit unwell. The teacher said he often contradicted his classmates every day and was sullen. I asked him not to say anything. Is not this me singing a black face to him too harsh? Son has been reluctant to say anything to me! Answer A: The present situation is, as a mom you temper, often reprimanded him; he and his classmates in school Conflicts, to the extent that the class teacher concerned and parents to inform. This is all his current living environment and personal relationships! It is more depressing to think about empathy? To know that for school-age children, transfer is a major event. Have you talked with your child in advance?