偶遇一本有声读物,名为《论语心得》。书中提到了孔子交朋友的原则:“侍于君子有三愆:言未及之而言谓之躁,言及之而不言谓之隐,未见颜色而言谓之瞽。”书的作者是一位国学大师,对原文做了非常细致的解读。特别当谈到“未见颜色而言为之瞽”一句时,国学大师讲道:“这就厉害了,就是瞎子,跟朋友谈话,不了解朋友内心想什么,就随便说。”随后这位国学大师又举了一个例子:“美国有一个演员叫费雯丽,得过奥斯卡金像奖。她出访欧洲,一走出停机坪,就有一大群记者涌上来采访她,其中有一个记者 Encounter an audiobook, called ”Analects of Confucius experience.“ The book mentions Confucius’ principle of making friends: ”The gentleman has three sons: saying impatience, saying nothing but implicit words without color,“ ”the book The author is a master of Chinese learning, made a very detailed interpretation of the original. Especially when it comes to the phrase “no color in view,” Master Guoxue said: “This is awesome, it is blind, talking to friends, do not understand what friends think, just casually.” Then the Master of Chinese Studies gave another example: "In the United States, there is an actress named Vivien Leigh who won the Academy Award. When she went to Europe and went out of the tarmac, a large group of journalists came in to interview her. Among them was a reporter