每个农夫、每个园丁都相当清楚,如果他想土豆丰收或者他想培养出美丽的玫瑰,他不会错过时间,他会在挖土豆前或摘玫瑰前选择适当的土壤,给它施肥,这是常识。就种土豆和玫瑰而言,每个人都明白这是常识,但是当涉及生儿育女、教育孩子时,我们多半连想都不会想。古语说得好:“幼儿养 Every farmer and every gardener is quite clear that if he wants the harvest of potatoes or he wants to cultivate a beautiful rose he will not miss the time he will choose the right soil before digging the potatoes or picking roses to fertilize it, This is common sense. As for the kinds of potatoes and roses, everyone understands that this is common sense, but most of us think about it when it comes to having children and educating children. Old saying goes: "Young children raise