笔者发现:眼下不少家长在家教育孩子时,经常用老师来压孩子,如:“明天告诉你们老师”,“这是你们老师说的”,“我看你们老师怎么训你”……看起来,老师在家长心目中的地位超过了自己,老师该欣慰。其实,许多教师对家长的这种做法颇有微词。首先,在大多数时候,老师教育学生比家长教育起的作用大,这是事实。但也应该看到,有时候家长的话比老师管用,如要孩子向困难学 I found that many parents nowadays often use their teachers to pressure their children when they are educating their children at home. For example, “Tell your teachers tomorrow,” “This is what your teachers say.” “I see how your teachers teach you.” , The teacher in the eyes of parents more than themselves, the teacher should be pleased. In fact, many teachers criticize this practice of parents. First of all, it is a fact that in most of the time teachers teach students to play a larger role than parent education. However, it should also be noted that sometimes the words of the parents are more effective than the teachers, such as asking the children to learn from difficulties