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本文中,“孤独求败者”是指优秀学生因为害怕内心孤独而主动要求失败的状态。优秀学生中的“孤独求败者”有以下心理特点:安全感缺乏,渴望密切人际关系;自卑感强烈,希望得到他人认可;习惯内归因;社会角色压力大;心理脆弱、害怕失败。面对这样问题的优秀学生,需要形成以积极心理学为依托,以家校联系为主导,以学生为主体,班主任、心理老师为辅助的心理辅导体系,对学生进行有效心理辅导。
In this article, “solitary loser” refers to the state of outstanding students who voluntarily demand failure because they are afraid of being lonely. Excellent students in the “lonely loser ” has the following psychological characteristics: a lack of security, longing for close relationships; strong sense of inferiority, hope to get recognition of others; habit attribution; social role of pressure; psychological vulnerability, fear of failure . In the face of such outstanding students, we need to form a psychological counseling system based on positive psychology, dominated by home-school links, student-centered, teacher-in-charge and psychology teacher, and provide effective psychological counseling to students.