人们往往会说智力、能力决定一个人的前途和成功。但却会发现,年龄相仿的孩子,小时候的学习成绩差不多,各方面的能力也差不多,可是到了最后,有的孩子取得了成就,有的却很平庸,甚至成了社会的渣滓。成为渣滓的人,小时候可能比别人更聪明,能力更强,人品也不坏,然而却没能取得最后的成功。为什么同样的孩子,差距会这么大呢?这其中的原因很多,但有一条很关键,那就是是否能够自律。自律像火车的轨道一样,控制人沿着成功的轨道前进,而一旦自律的能力较差,行为偏离了成功的轨道,可能就离成功越 People tend to say that intelligence, ability to determine a person’s future and success. However, we can see that children of similar ages have similar academic performance in their childhood and have similar ability in all aspects. However, in the end, some children have achieved success while others have become mediocre and have even become the scum of society. Those who become dregs may be smarter and stronger than others in their childhood, and their character is not bad, but they fail to achieve the ultimate success. Why the same children, the gap will be so big? There are many reasons for this, but one is the key, that is, whether self-discipline. Self-discipline Like a train’s orbit, controllers move along a successful trajectory, and once the ability to self-discipline is poor, the behavior deviates from the track of success, it may be away from success