人的一生会遇到许多问题,尤其是青少年在成长过程中面临许多困惑,确实需要恰当的指导和援助。这种帮助可能属于思想和精神方面,也可能属于策略和技巧方面。可不论哪个方面,都是我们现在的教育所缺失的。以致我们的孩子在挫折和苦难面前,不知如何处理。这种缺失从几十年前我读书的时候就存在,一直持续到现在。我们的教育都是“玫瑰色教育”:不希望学生看到社会 People’s lives will encounter many problems. In particular, young people are faced with many difficulties in the process of their growth. They do need proper guidance and assistance. This kind of help may be ideological and spiritual. It may also be tactical and technical. Regardless of which aspect it is, our current education is missing. So that our children do not know what to do in the face of frustration and suffering. This kind of deficiency existed when I was studying several decades ago and continued until now. Our education is “rose education”: I don’t want students to see society