7月4日晴在尊重个性、崇尚自我的今天,我们需要经常对自己说不。尽管我们渴望得到他人的赞扬和肯定,但在成绩与荣誉面前,我们需要清醒地对自己说不。尤其是当我们把父母的忠告当作一种束缚,把老师的教诲当成一种说教,把同学的善意批评视为一种妒忌……此时,我们更需要对自己说不。对自己说不,是正视自己弱点和错误的表现,这需要一种勇气,更需要一种善于自我认识的智慧。当今社会是网络时代,网络对我们产生很大的吸引力,有些学生沉迷于网络,下课去网吧,上课也偷偷 July 4 sunny In respect of individuality, advocating self today, we need to often say to myself. Although we are eager to receive the praise and affirmation of others, we need to be sober-minded to ourselves in the face of achievements and honors. Especially when we regard parental advice as a bondage, use the teacher’s teachings as preaching and jealous of classmates’ goodwill criticism ... At this point, we need to say no to ourselves. To say no to yourself is to face up to the manifestation of our own weaknesses and mistakes. This requires a kind of courage and requires a kind of wisdom that is good at self-knowledge. Today’s society is the Internet age, the Internet has a great attraction for us, some students addicted to the Internet, get out of class to Internet cafes, classes also secretly