善识心声，这是与人交往的基本功，大量事实证明，能否与他人建立良好关系，取决于对地人认识的精确度。只有善于洞察人的心意，才会减少许多误会，从而获得交际的成功。洞察心声的途径很多，从人的谈吐表现中识察，便是有效的一法。常言说：“言为心声”．语言是表达思想感情 Goodwill, which is the basic skills of contact with people, a large number of facts show that the ability to establish good relations with others, depends on the accuracy of knowledge of the people. Only good at insight into people’s minds, will reduce the number of misunderstandings, so as to obtain the success of communication. There are many ways to gain insight. It is an effective method to detect from the performance of people’s conversation. As the saying goes: “words for the heart.” Language is the expression of thoughts and feelings