深夜,我接到一个好朋友的电话,她迷茫地说“在这里,我一眼就能看到自己五年、甚至十年后的模样,我实在不知道这样生活有何意义。”“那你可以重新选择自己的生活。”我说,“比如考研,不就是一次很好的机会吗?”她叹了一口气:“难了,我上大学本来就晚,何况又是女的,你体会不到26岁对一个女孩子来说意味着什么,特别在这闭塞的小城市里。前不久,我男朋友向我求婚了,这不仅是他个人的意思,双方的父母都希望我们早点结婚。可一旦结婚,那真是坠入万劫不复的深渊了,可不结婚我又能怎么办呢。如果我还年轻 Late at night, when I got a phone call from a good friend, she confusedly said: ”Here I can see myself in five or even ten years’ time. I really do not know what this means for life.“ ”Then you can choose your own life again.“ ”I said, “ Such as PubMed, is not a good opportunity? ”“ She sighed: ”hard, I went to college already late, not to mention But also a woman, you realize what a 26-year-old means for a girl, especially in a small, closed city. Not long ago, my boyfriend proposed to me, this is not only his personal meaning, both parties Of parents want us to get married early, but once married, it really fell into the abyss of redemption, but I can not get married what can I do if I was still young