荀子曾经说过:“君子贤而能容罢,智而能容愚,博而能容浅,粹而能容杂。”人的一生,最难做到的便是包容。人们往往注意丈量人生的长度,却从不去计量人生的容量。人们往往能够包容成功,却很少能够包容失败;能够包容忠诚,却很少能够包容背叛;能够包容赞美,却很少能够包容诋毁;能够包容快乐,却很少能够包容痛苦……事实上,人生容量的大小,往往体现人的涵养与价值,决定着人的成败与得失。中外史料中,这样的例子随处可见。蔺相 Xunzi once said: “The gentleman Yin can tolerate, wisdom and can be foolish, Bo and can be shallow, pure and can be mixed.” "The person’s life, the most difficult is inclusive. People often pay attention to measuring the length of life, but never measure the capacity of life. People are often able to tolerate success, but rarely tolerate failure; to tolerate loyalty, but rarely tolerate betrayal; to tolerate compliment, but rarely tolerate vilification; to be tolerant of happiness, but rarely able to tolerate pain ... In fact, The size of life capacity, often reflects the conservation and value of people, determines the success or failure of people and gains and losses. Chinese and foreign historical materials, such examples can be seen everywhere. Lin phase