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人的一生,面对色彩斑斓的世界,诱惑太多。即使选定了奋斗目标,途中也难免因思谋金钱而驻足,因渴求名誉而浮躁,因攫取地位而难眠,故难以坚守心中的信念,难以执著既定的目标,以致无法取得人生和事业的成功。因此,学会拒绝,勇于拒绝就成为了一种人生的智慧与学问。拒绝的本质是一种失去,与赞成相比,其折射出的是冷峻的付出与掷地有声的清脆,更需要果决的判断和一往无前的勇气。“拒绝”是一种常见的生活现象,一种处世哲学。试问,人生在世,谁没有拒绝过别人?谁又没有被别人拒绝过呢?这其中有许多喜怒哀乐悲欢离合的故
Human life, the face of the colorful world, temptation too much. Even if the target of struggle is selected, it will inevitably stop because of his thought of money. Due to his desire for fame and fortune, it will be hard to stick to the belief in his mind and hard to stick to his established goal, so as to fail to achieve success in his life and career . Therefore, learning to refuse, courage to refuse has become a kind of wisdom and knowledge of life. The essence of rejection is a kind of loss. Compared with the approval, the refusal reflects the stern and deafening judgment and the courage to surrender. “Reject ” is a common phenomenon of life, a philosophy of life. Ask, life is alive, who did not refuse others? Who has not been rejected by others it? Many of them joys and sorrows joys and sorrows