不疾不徐,自然从容,不做作,不夸张,不鄙俗,不骄傲,有情而内蕴,有原则但不强横,举手投足,赏心悦目。与妻闲聊,谈到个人形象,发觉其中以优雅为最难。所识友人中,竟无一人具此风格。再从影视艺人中搜寻,俊男美女多矣,却不能归入此类。先找女的,某人艳丽,令人不能逼视;某人雍容,持重了些;某人热情,张扬了些;某人活泼,幼稚了些;某人够cool,又冷了些……再找男的,有人粗犷,嫌野了些;有人豪爽, Not cautious, naturally calm, not contrived, not exaggerated, not vulgar, not proud, love and implication, there are principles but not tyrannical, gestures, pleasing. Chatting with his wife, talked about personal image, found that the most difficult to elegant. None of the friends I know has this style. Search again from the film and television artistes, handsome men and women carry more, but can not fall into this category. First look for a woman, someone gorgeous, it can not be forced to look; someone grace, a bit more weight; some enthusiasm, publicity; some lively, childish some; Looking for a man, some rough, too outdone; some generous,