有次我去一个朋友家,听到朋友的妻子和她5岁的孩子一段对话,深有感触,久久不能忘记。孩子对妈妈说:“妈妈,我有点冷。”妈妈说:“冬天到了,该穿棉衣了。走,我们找棉衣去。”但是妈妈没有找孩子的棉衣,而是先找出奶奶的棉衣。“小波,奶奶会不会冷呢?”“奶奶也冷。”“那么,你先把奶奶的棉衣送去,再找你的棉衣好吗?”“好。”孩子高高兴兴地抱着大棉袍送到奶奶跟前。这里,没有“要尊敬长辈”“要关心别人”“做人要有爱心”“不要只顾 Once I went to a friend’s house and heard a friend’s wife and her 5-year-old child have a conversation, deep feeling, long time can not forget. The child said to his mother: “Mom, I’m a bit cold.” Mom said, “It’s winter, it’s time to wear a coat, and let’s go find a coat.” But her mom did not look for a child’s coat, but her grandmother’s coat. “Baby, grandmother will be cold?” “Grandmother is cold.” “So, you first sent the grandmother’s cotton-padded coat, and then find your coat?” “Good.” The child cheerfully hugged Cotton gown to the grandmother in front. Here, there is no “to respect the elders,” “to care about others,” “benevolent,” "do not just care