我原本认为自己是一个开明、有主见的家长,孩子上幼儿园时,我没有花钱找关系,而是就近找了一所普通幼儿园。我周围的同事、朋友从孩子刚会说话,就注重培养孩子的各种兴趣,我却从来不为所动。后来孩子幼儿园的同学家长告诉我,孩子从三岁培养都已经晚了,应该从出生后开始培养。一两岁就要去上亲子班,三四岁就得开始学英语口语、趣味数学、创意作文。对身边很多家长的经验之谈,我置若罔闻,想当年我们小时候,什么辅导班都没有,大家不还是照样 I originally thought I was an enlightened, assertive parent. When the children went to kindergarten, I did not pay for the relationship but found an ordinary kindergarten nearby. My colleagues and friends around me just talked to the children, they focus on cultivating children’s various interests, but I have never been moved. Later, parents of children’s kindergarten told me that children are three-year-old training late, and should start training after birth. One or two years old will go to parent-child classes, three or four years old have to start to learn spoken English, interesting mathematics, creative composition. On the side of many parents talk about the experience, I turned a deaf ear and think of when we were young, what remedial classes are not, we still are still the same