在儿童心理咨询中,常常会遇到因经常打架和调皮捣蛋而由班主任建议来进行治疗的孩子。这些儿童生长发育超常,体格较同龄儿童健壮,他们易冲动,自控能力差,经常与同学因话不投机而拳脚相加,往往有“小霸王”之称。为此经常被老师批评,与同学关系紧张。所谓攻击性行为,是指个体对他人进行言语和身体的攻击。几乎所有的孩子在成长过程中都会或多或少地表现出一些攻击性行为,只是轻重程度不同而已。有些小孩喜欢惹是生非,戏弄、恐吓、欺负同龄儿童或比他小的儿童,强占抢夺别人的玩具和物品;平时言语较多,喜欢与人争执且非胜不可,并时常讲粗话、骂人;情绪不稳定,脾气暴躁,任性执拗,稍不如意就 In child psychology counseling, often encounter due to regular fights and naughty and suggested by the class teacher for treatment of children. These children have abnormal growth and development and are physically more robust than their children of the same age. They are easily impulsive and have poor self-control ability. They often add up with their classmates because they are not opportunistic and often have “small bully”. To this end often criticized by teachers, tension with students. The so-called offensive behavior, refers to the individual to others speech and body attacks. Almost all children in the growth process will be more or less demonstrated some offensive behavior, but the severity of different. Some children like to mess with, tease, intimidate, bully children of the same age or younger than him, seize the snatch of others toys and items; usually more speech, like to dispute with each other and indefeasible, and often say foul language, curse; emotions Stable, temper, headstrong stubborn, slightly unhappy