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转眼间,“六一”儿童节又到了。儿童节是孩子们最幸福的日子,因为每到这一天,父母都会想方设法地让孩子们开心。他们会带孩子去游乐园,排一两个小时的长队,挤得大汗淋漓,只为了让孩子玩上海盗船或是过山车;他们会给孩子买最高级最安全的玩具,甚至不惜海外代购;他们会带孩子去旅行,从国内玩到国外……可奇怪的是,他们却不肯每天抽出几分钟,陪孩子玩一会儿最简单的亲子游戏。还记得“躲猫猫”吗?还记得“丢手绢”吗?还记得“老鹰捉小鸡”吗?我们小时候玩游戏时,总是跟小朋友们在一起,看不见妈妈的身影,因为她们总是“很忙”。可当我们做了父母,我们却依旧把孩子扔给幼儿园,扔给玩具。当孩子不爱和我们说话了,不去幼儿园了,不做我们让他做的事了,我们才开始着急,使出威逼利诱的十八种武器。其实,要想让孩子接受你,就得运用他们能够听得懂的语言来跟他交流。游戏就是孩子的第一语言。游戏对孩子的成长意义重大,也是能带给父母最多喜悦的神奇之路。尤其在跟孩子发生争执和矛盾的时候,游戏经常能够很好地改变气氛和化解对峙,让父母与孩子很快融洽起来,连孩子身上的小问题,也能在游戏中迎刃而解。用玩的方式跟孩子说话,将快乐渗透在生活里,才是送给孩子最好的儿童节礼物。
An instant, “61 ” Children’s Day has arrived. Children’s Day is the happiest day for children, because every day, parents will find ways to make their children happy. They will take their children to the amusement park, queue for an hour or two, squeezing sweat, just to let the children play Shanghai pirate ship or roller coaster; they will give their children to buy the most advanced and safe toys, even at overseas shopping ; They will take their children to travel from home to abroad ... Strangely, they refuse to take a few minutes each day to accompany their children to play the simple parent-child game for a while. Still remember “hide handkerchief ” remember? “Eagle catch a chicken ”? When we were young we play games, always with the children together, can not see my mother Because they are always “very busy”. But when we did parents, we still throw our children to kindergarten, throwing toys. When the children do not love to talk with us, they do not go to kindergarten, do not do what we let him do, and we are anxious to make eighteen kinds of weapons that threaten and induce them. In fact, in order for children to accept you, you have to use the language they can understand to communicate with him. The game is the child’s first language. Games for children’s growth of great significance, but also can bring the most joy of parents the magical way. Especially in disputes and conflicts with the children, the game often can change the atmosphere and resolve the confrontation, so that parents and children quickly get together, even the child’s small problems, can be solved in the game. To play with the child to talk to the joy of infiltration in the life, is the best gift for children’s children’s day.