半大孩子最难管,他们不再是我们翅膀底下的小鸟,他们有了自己的圈子。圈子是一种认同和归属,也是一种制约和束缚。我们与其站在圈外担心着尚未真正成熟的孩子是近朱者赤,还是近墨者黑,不如跟随《家长》调查小组从社会学这个专业视角走进孩子的朋友圈一探究竟。 Half-eared children the most difficult to control, they are no longer under the wings of our birds, they have their own circle. Circle is a kind of identity and ownership, but also a constraint and bondage. Instead of standing outside the circle and worrying about whether the children who have not yet really matured are near-zero or near-black, it is better to follow the “parents” investigation team into the circle of friends from a sociological perspective.