记得我来这家民营金融机构应聘的时候,人力部长几乎毫不犹豫地留下了我,而和我一同应聘的我的朋友小丽却落选了。事实上,她是真正的科班出身,金融学院的本科生,而我,只是一个差强人意的师范大学中文系学生。这一上一下之间的奥秘完全来自“她不如你有风度”(人力部长后来对我说)。我不知道男人眼中“风度”这个词儿究竟蕴含着什么,我只知道,站在风中,我比小丽的摔倒系数要高出很多。 I remember when I came to this private financial institution to apply, the Minister of Human Resources left me with almost no hesitation, and my friend Mary, who applied for me, was unsuccessful. In fact, she is a real undergraduate in science, an undergraduate in finance, and I am just a Chinese undergraduates majoring in disagreement. The mystery between the last moment and the second moment comes completely from “She is not as demeanor as you are.” (Minister of Manpower told me later). I do not know what the word “demeanor” really implies in the eyes of a man. I only know that standing in the wind, I have a lot higher than Mary's falling coefficient.