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培养理智讲理的孩子中国人总是把“听话”当作一个孩子的优点。但是我希望我的孩子不要只做听话的孩子,我要他们成为讲理的孩子。听话的孩子可能只是盲从,而不见得懂道理。讲理的孩子会在你有理时听话。那不就是我们所要的吗?
Chinese who cultivate rational reasoning always consider “obedience ” as the merit of a child. But I hope my children will not only be obedient children, I want them to be rational children. Obedient children may be blind obedience, but not understand reason. Talking children will be obedient when you are reasonable. Is not that what we want?