一个人,拥有包容的胸襟,得意时淡定,失意时坦然,才会拥有风平浪静、海阔天空的快乐时光。康熙年间,当朝宰相张英老家里的人在建造房屋时,为争地基与邻居发生了争执。家人飞书京城求助,哪知道宰相并没有仗着自己位高权重而出面摆平,只是回馈老家人一首诗:“一纸书来只为墙,让他三尺又何妨?长城万里今犹在,不见当年秦始皇。”家人见书信后感觉惭愧,立刻在争执线上退让了三尺,下垒建墙。而 A man, with inclusive mind, proud calm, frustrated when calm, will have a calm, brighter future. During the reign of Kangxi, when the people in the prime minister Zhang Ying’s home were building houses, they had a dispute with their neighbors to fight for the foundation. The family flyer Beijing capital for help, which knows the prime minister did not rely on their own high position and come forward to settle down, but to repay the old man a poem: “a paper book only for the wall, let him three feet and why not? At that time, the First Emperor of Qin Dynasty was gone. ”After the family felt ashamed of seeing the epistle, they immediately retreated to three feet in the dispute line and built the wall under the barrier. and