很多大人,包括家长和教师,常常愤愤然而又无可奈何地看着孩子们:在生活上的依赖性一点儿没减少的情况下,孩子们的情感却一天天与自己脱离; 在对世界的认识一天天扩展和准确的同时,孩子们和自己认识的矛盾却日益突出,有时甚至对立; Many adults, including parents and teachers, often look angrily and helplessly at their children: children’s emotions are separated from themselves day by day without any reduction in their dependence on life. While expanding and accurate every day, the contradictions between children and themselves have become increasingly prominent and sometimes even contradictory.