每天,我们都会遇到这样或那样的事,顺心的事不多,烦人的事不少。 不如意的事,不会因为我们不喜欢,而减少出现频率;如意的事,不会因为我们喜欢,而过多光临。现实生活就是这个样子,她永远有自己的节奏,她不会因为我们的喜恶而改变她的规律。 面对那么多不如意,我们该怎么办?我们能够做些什么?我们只能从自我做起,做到事烦心不烦。 Every day, we will encounter this or that thing, there is not much satisfaction, a lot of annoying things. Not happy, not because we do not like, and reduce the frequency of occurrence; wishful things, not because we like, but too much. Real life is like this, she will always have their own rhythm, she will not change her laws because of our likes and dislikes. In the face of so much disappointment, what should we do? What can we do? We can only start from ourselves, do things bother.