老话说得好:打仗亲兄弟,上阵父子兵。兄弟间互相帮助、提携,成就了一桩桩美谈。如何帮?哪些能帮、哪些不能帮?这是一门深学问。从曾国藩的所作所为中,我们或可了解端倪。刘绪义先生所著的《曾国藩与晚清大变局》中辟了章节,叙述曾国藩手把手地教其胞弟曾国荃写奏折的事情,用功之细心、教导之耐心乃至代劳之苦心,非亲兄弟是不能如此花功夫的,“曾国藩指点老 As the old saying goes: war brothers, battle father and son soldiers. Brothers helped each other and helped each other and achieved great results. How to help? What can help, what can not help? This is a deep study. From the actions of Tseng Kuo-fan, we may understand the clue. Mr. Zeng Guofan wrote the chapter titled ”Zeng Guofan and the Great Change in the Late Qing Dynasty“, narrating Zeng Guofan’s hand in teaching his brother Zeng Guoquan to write a memorial book, carefully using his work, teaching patience and even exerting his own efforts, and non-brothers can not do so Spend time, ”Zeng Guofan pointing old