母亲的这句话影响了我一生。有一次,日本著名禅师千利休被一个叫上林竹庵的人邀去参加茶事,并且带上了几个弟子。竹庵非常欢喜,在千利休和弟子们进入茶室后,开始亲自为大家点茶。但是,由于他过于紧张,点茶的手有些发抖,致使茶盒上的茶勺跌落、茶筅倒下、茶筅中的水溢出,显得十分不雅。千利休的弟子们都暗暗地在心里发笑。可是,茶会结束回去的路上,千利休却赞叹说:“今天茶会主人 My mother’s sentence affected my life. Once, a famous Japanese Zen master Thousand-lee was invited by a man named Shanglin Bamboo Urn to attend tea business and brought several disciples. Bamboo Temple is very happy, in the Senlis and disciples into the tea room, began to personally tea for everyone. However, because he was too nervous, the tea hand shuffled, causing the tea spoon on the tea box to fall, the tea spoon to fall down and the water in the tea spoon to overflow. It was very indecent. Senlis’s disciples are secretly laughing in my heart. However, the tea party to go back on the road, Thousands admired but said: ”Today tea host