淘气、顽皮是孩子的天性,不用教,自己就会,而且花样翻新。孩子的这种天性,相信做父母的都有深切体会,有时让你啼笑皆非,有时让你又气又恼。而作为父母的你,面对孩子因天性使然而犯的错误,是狠狠训斥、生硬阻拦,还是顺其自然,让孩子自由成长呢?我的选择是后者。我之所以选择后者,是因为童年留下的阴影。我小时候因为淘气,经常挨父亲的揍,导致性格偏于内向。为了不让儿子重蹈我的覆辙,自从儿子出生后,我一直坚持奉行 Naughty, naughty is the nature of children, do not teach, they will, and tricks renovation. This nature of children, believe parents have deep experience, and sometimes make you ridiculous, and sometimes make you angry and annoyed. As a parent, you face the mistakes made by children due to nature, is severely reprimanded, blunt block, or let it be free to let the children grow up freely? My choice is the latter. The reason I chose the latter is because of the shadows left by my childhood. When I was young, I was naughty and often beaten by my father, leading to a more introverted character. In order not to let my son repeat my mistakes, since my son was born, I always adhere to it