出于各种原因,夫妻离异,造成家庭解体。原来属于他们的子女不再由双亲共同抚育,生活环境随着发生重大变化:或者处于单亲的不完整家庭;或者置身有非血缘关系成员的重组家庭。这种变动带给孩子的情感挫折和个性创伤是毋庸讳言的。然而,如果换一个角度考察,也不难发现离婚时于破裂的家庭所起的心理调整作用。那些夫妻感情濒临崩溃的家庭,不仅已经无法完成教育子女的使命,而且双亲的不和,痛苦,冲突给予孩子频繁的心理冲击和精神折磨,那是幼小的心灵难以承受的。这种家庭的解体,为弦子创设新的心理环境提供了可能。当然,从总体说,父母感情的破裂以至解除婚姻关系,对于孩子都是一种不幸。如果缺乏正确合理的情感疏导和补偿,很容易使他们对人生冷漠,产生性格变异,甚至步入歧途。这在少年罪犯中是不乏例证的。 For a variety of reasons, the couple divorced, resulting in the dissolution of the family. The children who belonged to them were no longer raised together by their parents, and the living environment changed greatly as a result of either single-parent incomplete families or reorganized families with non-kinship members. This change brings the emotional frustration and personality trauma to children is indisputable. However, if we look at it from another perspective, it is not hard to find the psychological adjustment effect on the broken families during divorce. Those couples whose families are on the verge of collapse have not only failed to fulfill the mission of educating their children, but also their parents’ displeasure, pain and conflict have given their children frequent psychological shocks and mental tortures that their young minds can not bear. The disintegration of this family, the string created a new psychological environment may provide. Of course, in general, the rupture of the parents’ feelings and the dissolution of the marital relationship are all unfortunate to the children. Without proper and reasonable emotional counseling and compensation, it is easy for them to become indifferent to their life, produce personality variation and even go astray. This is exemplified in juvenile offenders.