在亲情上,为人父母总觉得孩子有许多可怜处。其实,孩子一般不会觉得自己如何可怜,要是让他们像放羊似的自由生存,那是再棒不过了。在我10岁的时候,父亲病故,那时年景不好,兄弟姐妹又多,母亲实在无法在冬季来临之前,让每个孩子都能及时穿上棉鞋。一天,邻居一位妇女见我大冷天里穿双凉鞋,怜悯地说:“可怜的孩子,天这么冷了还穿双凉鞋。”我想,如果当时我觉得自己很可怜,一定会伤心地大哭一场。幸亏我当时还不能心领神会“可 In affection, parents always feel that children have many pitiful. In fact, children generally do not feel how poor they are, if they let their freedom to live like sheep, it is no better. When I was 10 years old, my father died, the age was not good, there were so many brothers and sisters, and it was impossible for mothers to wear cotton shoes in time for the winter before they arrived. One day, a neighbor, a woman, saw me wearing a pair of sandals during cold weather and said with pity: ”Poor boy, it’s too cold to wear a pair of sandals.“ ”I think if I felt sorry for myself then, Sad cry. Fortunately, I was not able to take the hint at that time