镇静自己的情绪,不急于下定论 看到孩子哭哭啼啼,满脸受委屈的样子,家长顿生疼爱之心是很自然的。但不能就此不分清红皂白地咋咋唬唬:“谁欺负你了,告诉爸爸,我找他算账去。”或“谁把我家宝宝的衣服弄脏了,让他妈妈帮你洗。”这样,会使孩子造成“爸爸、妈妈向着我”的感觉,有时候因不明事情的真相,容易把事情搞糟。 引导孩子如实地将事情的经过讲清楚 家长应心平气和地告诉孩子:爸爸妈妈只有知道究竟发生了什么事,才能发表意见。在孩子讲述的过程中,家长不能给予诸如“是他先动手打你的,是吗”,“你没有动手,对吗”等诱导或暗示,而是鼓励孩子做个诚实的人,讲真话。 Calm his emotions, not in a hurry to see the child crying, his face was wronged look, parents donation heart is very natural. But you can not do it indiscriminately at this point: “Who bullied you, told Dad, I got him to check it out.” Or “Who put my baby’s clothes dirty, let his mother help you wash.” , Will make the child cause “father, mother to me” feeling, sometimes because of unknown truth, easy to mess things up. Guide your child to truthfully tell the story of the incident Parents should be calm to tell their children: Mom and Dad only to know what happened before they can express their views. In the process of children’s presentation, parents can not induce or imply such things as “whether he should strike you first, right,” “do you not do anything, right”, but encourage children to be honest people and tell the truth .