在我的父母去世后,姐姐和我在整理母亲的遗物时,看到了这些信笺。这些信笺被放在我父母卧室壁橱靠里面的一个箱子里,用一条丝带小心地捆扎着。我和姐姐从未被允许看这些信,因为母亲告诉我们,这些信是当年父亲在他们恋爱期间写给她的,属于他们的隐私。 After my parents died, my sister and I saw the letterhead while sorting out the mothers’ belongings. The letterheads were placed in a box inside the closet of my parents’ bedroom, carefully strapped with a ribbon. My sister and I have never been allowed to read these letters because my mother told us that these letters were the ones that my father had written to her during their fellowship and that it was their privacy.