“虎妈”不仅是当前东西方教育观念差异的焦点人物,也是器乐教育层面的热门话题。她看准了小提琴、钢琴的学习功能,替两个年幼的女儿作出了选择,培养孩子坚持不懈的性格特点、刻苦钻研的顽强毅力,打破亚裔富人不过三代的“魔咒”。我教琴三十多年,凡优秀学生的家长,几乎都有类似“虎妈”的精神和做法。最近两年上海市金山区两位中考最高分获得者,都是我的学生。有趣的是,这两家父母都是恪守中国传统学者的座右铭——业精于勤。勤,即时间、精力支配多。“虎妈” “Tiger mother ” is not only the focus of current differences between East and West education concept, but also instrumental education level hot topic. She spotted the violin, piano learning function, for the two young daughters made a choice, cultivating children’s perseverance in personality traits, painstakingly tenacious perseverance, to break the Asian rich, but three generations of “magic” . I have taught for more than 30 years. Almost all the parents of excellent students have the similar spirit and practice of “tiger mother”. The last two years, Shanghai Jinshan District two highest marks in the exam, all my students. Interestingly, both parents are abiding by the motto of Chinese traditional scholars - they are good at diligence. Duty, that is, time and energy control more. “Tiger mother ”