代沟,即两代人之间的心理距离,正是这种心理距离常常引发两代人之间的心理冲突,冲突的结果或者一方屈从于另一方,或者两败俱伤,给两代人的关系带来更大的裂痕。当代青少年与父母辈的代际冲实较为普遍,双方各有许多难言之隐,对此,有人担忧,有人叹息,有人失望,根据笔者的理解与体验,代沟并不可怕,代沟可以超越。其实,代沟是一种历史现象,并非是当代青少 Generation gap, that is, the psychological distance between two generations, it is this psychological distance often lead to psychological conflicts between two generations, the result of the conflict or one of the parties succumb to the other party, or lose both, bring the relationship between generations Larger cracks. Generational confrontation between contemporary young people and their parents is more common. There are many unspeakable secrets on both sides. Some people are worried that some people sigh and some disappoint. According to the author’s understanding and experience, the generation gap is not terrible. The generation gap can be surpassed. In fact, generation gap is a historical phenomenon, not contemporary youth