一戒:不问年龄。西方人的年龄是保密的,特别是超过24岁的人,绝不谈论自己的年龄,尤其是女士。二戒:不问财物。在西方,一个人的收入和随身所戴的财物都与个人的能力、地位、脸面等有关。三戒:不问婚姻。这属于个人隐私。四戒:不问住址。西方人认为,给人留下住址,就得请对方到家 One warning: regardless of age. The age of Westerners is confidential, especially those who are over 24 years old, and never talk about their own age, especially women. The two precepts: Do not ask for property. In the West, the income and personal belongings of a person are related to the individual’s ability, status, face, and so on. The Three Precepts: No questions about marriage. This is personal privacy. Four quits: No address. Westerners believe that if you leave a home address, you have to ask the other person to come home.