一、现象描述我国著名教育家叶圣陶先生曾说:“凡人生所需之重要习惯性格态度多半可以在六岁以前培养成功。”此话揭示了培养良好行为习惯应及早抓起的必要性。小班孩子都来自不同的家庭,而每一个家庭由于教养方式的不同,性格也会有鲜明的差异。有的孩子常常以自我为中心,缺乏必要的礼貌,不懂得遵守集体规则,生活常规较差等等;有的孩子由于接触外界的渠道多了,语言发展就很好,说话一套套的。但他们往往会说一套做 I. Description of phenomenon Mr. Ye Shengtao, a famous educator in our country once said: “Most of the important customary attitudes necessary for human life can be successfully cultivated before the age of six.” This remark shows the necessity of cultivating good behavior habits as early as possible . Small classes of children are from different families, and each family due to the different ways of education, there will be a clear difference in character. Some children are often self-centered, lack of necessary courtesy, do not know how to abide by the collective rules, poor living routine and so on; some children as a result of more channels of contact with the outside world, language development is very good, speaks in sets. But they tend to say one thing