我和老公结婚才一个多月,可是两个人总爱为一点儿小事吵架。我很不喜欢这种生活方式,该怎么办?你们经常吵架至少说明两个问题:一、你们真的步入了婚姻的现实阶段。从恋爱到婚姻,那种感觉有点像从虚幻的天堂到脚踏实地的人间,而吵架在其中就扮演着“降落伞”的角色。二、你们有架可吵,说明你们还有热情与感情,有相互了解的需求和愿望,所以,不要把吵架当成太坏的事情。 My husband and I married more than a month, but two people always love to quarrel for a little trifle. I really do not like this way of life, how to do? You often quarrel at least two questions: First, you really entered the real stage of marriage. From love to marriage, the feeling is a bit like walking from a fantasy paradise to a down-to-earth world where quarrels play a role of “parachute.” Second, you have noisy stand, indicating that you still have passion and feelings, there is a mutual understanding of the needs and aspirations, so do not treat the quarrel as too bad thing.