宫维民同志: 我在单位工作已经10个年头了,我觉得自己很努力,业务能力也挺强,但是我感到孤独,觉得大家好象对我有看法。我生活在集体中,希望能和大家处好关系,搞好团结,能够从集体中得到快乐。为此,我也请教过有关同志,他们说我之所以和同志处不好关系是因为我太自私,不肯吃一点亏。是的,我不想得什么便宜,但我不能让人欺负,在个人利益上,我不能吃亏。谁侵犯了我的利益我就和谁过不去。我这是自我保护,正当防卫。在提倡大公无私的年代,这种想法不合要求,有悖共产主义道德。但现在不同了,我们正在建立社会主义市场经济,要生存就要学会怎样竞争。竞争,就是打败别人,保护自己。该给 Gong Weimin comrades: I have been working in the unit for 10 years, and I feel very hardworking, strong business ability, but I feel lonely, I think everyone seems to have my opinion. I live in a collective and hope I can establish good relations with you, do solidarity and be happy from the collective. For this reason, I also consulted the relevant comrades. They said that the reason why I have not got a good relationship with my comrades is because I am too selfish and refuse to eat a little. Yes, I do not want anything cheaper, but I can not make people bullied, in the personal interest, I can not afford to lose. Who violated my interests, and I will not get along. I am self-protection and self-defense. In an era of advocating selflessness, this kind of thinking is not in line with the requirements and runs counter to communist morality. But now it is different. We are building a socialist market economy and we must learn how to compete in order to survive. Competition is to defeat others and protect themselves. The give