在男性科门诊和心理咨询中心,经常可以遇到因性功能障碍而前来求治的男性来访者。通过对发病经过和个人生活史的调查,我发现他们中间有相当一部分人在幼年或青春期曾有过与性有关的创伤经历,正是这些经历造成了他们的难言之隐。 李某大学毕业已工作5年,谈过的女朋友不少,但一个也没成。直到最近,将近而立之年的李才与一位姑娘结为秦晋之好。新婚之夜,李勉为其难地做了丈夫。不过婚后妻子对李越来越不满意,常常暗自啜泣。这个中原因,李最清楚,但他无法向妻子解释清楚是什么原因造成了他的无能。李不是没有欲望、冲动和要求,每当妻子晚上打扮得楚楚动人等待他时,每当李抚摸妻子那光 In male outpatient and counseling centers, male visitors who come to seek treatment for sexual dysfunction can often be encountered. Through the investigation of the pathogenesis and the history of personal life, I found that quite a few of them had had sex-related traumatic experiences in their infancy or adolescence. It is these experiences that make them unspeakable. Lee graduated from college has been working for 5 years, talked about a lot of girlfriends, but one did not. Until recently, Li and Li, a protagonist in the close of the year, became good Qin Chin. Wedding night, Li Mian made her husband difficult. However, after the wife became more and more dissatisfied with Lee’s wife, often secretly sobbing. The reason for this, Lee most clearly, but he could not explain to his wife what caused his incompetence. Lee is not without desires, impulses and demands, whenever his wife was well-dressed at night waiting for him, when Lee stroked his wife that light