年轻的孩子:我不知道将来等你真正长大了——我指从大学毕业以后——是否也会遇到像我一样的情形:从小到大的朋友,老朋友好朋友,一个个地离开中国,到国外去了。我的整个年轻时代,差不多就是伴随着与朋友的告別——本来鲜活的一个人变成一张从美国寄来的圣诞卡这样的过程度过的。他们都到美国去了,到那里读书,然后毕业工作,然后结婚。有 Young kids: I don’t know if you will grow up in the future - I mean after graduating from college - whether you will encounter situations like me: friends from old to young, old friends and good friends, leave one by one China, went abroad. Throughout my youth, I was almost accompanied by a farewell to a friend—a process in which a living person became a Christmas card sent from the United States. They all went to the United States, went to school, graduated from work, and then married. Have