▲不可一味说“行”过去,家长们认为子女应该一切服从长辈,什么都是父母说了算。现在,一些家长却由“绝对专制”走向了“极端民主”,对孩子或放任自流,或百依百顺。心理学认为:“过分的自由造就没有界限和没有责任心的人。”阿莎·菲利普斯在《说不——为什么对你和你的孩子非常重要》一书中指出:“为了避免专制者形象而只知道说行的父母,只会造成一种脱离现实生活的幻想和危险的形势。”孩子长期处于受宠的特殊地位,要风得 ▲ can not blindly say “OK” in the past, parents think their children should obey all their elders, what are the parents have the final say. Nowadays, some parents have gone from “absolute tyranny” to “extreme democracy” and their children are either self-reliant or obedient. Psychology argues: “Excessive freedom creates people with no limits and no sense of responsibility.” Asha Phillips points out in his book, “Why It’s Not Important for You and Your Children,” says: “In order to avoid tyranny Only by knowing the image of the parents and the parents can only create an illusion and dangerous situation out of real life. ”Children have long been favored in the special status, to the wind