当孩子焦虑得近乎抓狂的时候,父母首先要安定自己,然后再安定孩子,其实原来认定的难题,都会在彼此安心安定的情况下迎刃而解。数年前暑假里的周六上午,我带着两个女儿从乡下父亲家回到自己家。孩子们玩了好几天,下午就该去上补习班了。午饭后,我正在浴室冲澡,大女儿来对我说:“妹妹在哭,说她下午要补习的课程都读不懂,心情很坏很慌。”小女儿开学后就要 When the child is almost crazy when anxiety, parents must first settle themselves, and then stabilize the child, in fact, the problems identified in the original, will be comfortably settled in each other’s ease. On the Saturday morning in the summer vacation years ago, I took my two daughters back home from my father’s house in the country. Children play for days, in the afternoon should go to the cram school. After lunch, I was bathing in the bathroom, the eldest daughter came to me and said: “My sister is crying, saying that she did not read the lessons to be tutored in the afternoon, feeling very bad and very flustered.” "