礼貌作为建立人际关系的社会规范,在不同的社会文化背景下有着不同的礼貌原则。因此,本文将从文化的角度来探讨中西方礼貌的相对性,旨在使人们意识到跨文化交际中礼貌策略使用上的失误,从而有效地达到交际目的。 Politeness as a social norms to establish interpersonal relationships, in different socio-cultural context has a different politeness principle. Therefore, this article will discuss the relativity of politeness in China and the West from the perspective of culture, aiming to make people aware of the mistakes in using politeness strategies in intercultural communication so as to achieve the purpose of communication effectively.