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据报载:在国际儿童绘画比赛中多次获奖的一位小画家举办个人画展,开幕式上记者要这位小画家谈谈自己成功的“秘诀”,不料小画家洋洋得意地说道: “我的成功是因为有两个秘书,我爸爸是我的工作秘书,什么削铅笔、画纸、挤颜料之类的粗活,全不用我动手,他还要收集各种比赛信息,开展社交公关;而我妈妈则是我的生活秘书,我一提笔画画,妈妈就会把吃的、喝的都为我端来……”显然在父母过度关心和溺爱中,孩子不懂得尊敬父母,当物质的给予超过甚至淹灭了精神的给予,当父母付出了许多却换来了一个骄横得连父母都不放在眼里的孩子时,父母们要想想这种爱是否过头了。
It is reported that a small artist who won many awards at the International Children’s Painting Competition held a personal art exhibition. At the opening ceremony, the reporter asked the young painter to talk about the “secret” of his success. Unexpectedly, the artist painstakingly said: “I The success is because there are two secretaries, my father is my secretary of work, what pencil sharpening, drawing paper, squeeze pigments like crude, do not have my hands, he also collected information on various competitions, and social public relations; and My mother is my secretary of life, I mentioned a stroke drawing, my mother will eat, drink all for me to come ... ... ”Obviously in their parents over-care and spoiled, children do not know how to respect their parents, when the material To give more than even drown the spirit of giving, when parents have paid a lot in exchange for an arrogant childrens parents are not looked down on, parents should think about this love is over.