前一段时间,我参加了一个心理健康教育的培训班。在培训的日子里,我一天比一天害怕,也一天比一天内疚。我害怕,是因为我认识到,我对儿子的期望过高,总想把他培养成“人上人”这会使他的心理受到严重影响;我内疚,是因为我认识到,我的脾气暴躁,一见孩子不如我意,不打即骂,孩子见到我就惧怕得不知所措,这会让他的心灵严重扭曲…… Some time ago, I attended a training course on mental health education. During the training days, I was scared day after day and guilty day after day. I was afraid because I realized that my expectations for my son were too high and that I always wanted to train him to be a “human being” which would have a serious impact on his psychology. I was guilty because I realized that my temper Crazy, see the child is not as good as I intended, do not fight curse, the child I was afraid to know what to do, which will make his mind seriously distorted ...