美国哲学家威廉·杰姆斯曾经说过:“人性最深的需求就是渴望别人的赏识。而且,随着阅历的增加,这种‘渴望’会变得更加需要。”作为初中生更是如此。在教育他们时,一个信任的微笑,一个激励的眼神,一句鼓励的话语,都可以给他们最大的帮助。但有时候我们被一种“恨铁不成钢”的情绪蒙蔽了双眼,看到的都 William J. James, the American philosopher, once said: “The deepest need of human nature is the desire of others, and as the experience increases, such desire becomes more necessary.” As a junior high school student, more in this way. When they are educated, a smile of trust, a motivational look, an encouraging discourse can help them most. But sometimes we are blinded by the emotions of “turning iron into steel”