我一直迷信语言，并认为只有语言能传达我的命令和要求。好像教育孩子就非说话不可，可话说多了，在孩子那里又变成了唠叨，变成了干扰和破坏情绪的噪音，而常常把来孩子顶嘴，惹我大怒，要采用武力。可发怒和动武都是教育孩子的大忌。女儿上学以后，每天回来，不换衣服就住屋? I have always superstitious language, and that only language can convey my orders and requirements. It seems as if children are not taught to speak. To be more, they become nagging at their children and become noise that interferes with and destroys their emotions. However, they often use their children to turn their backs on their heads and make me furious. Can be angry and use of force are taboo education of children. Daughter goes to school, come back everyday, do not change clothes to live?