许多人不管什么时候都要支配全局,当他们觉得力不从心时,就感到忧虑,而且没有安全感。忧虑这种支配欲会造成自我打击。这世上有创造力、有活力的人说,要活得痛快,就要有能力让步或者放弃控制欲。当然,这种说法违背了我们向来容许自已去相信的想法。 Many people dominate the world no matter when they feel powerless. They feel anxious and insecure. Worry about this domination will lead to self-combat. There are creative and energetic people in this world who say that if you want to live a happy life, you must be able to give up or give up control. Of course, this argument goes against the idea that we have always allowed ourselves to believe.